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Father Sues Gay Son for Conversion Therapy Costs
A father sued his own son for the cost of raising him after the son came out as gay
Gregory Talbert, a Christian father from Memphis, Tennessee, stood in court and demanded $6,000 from his 18-year-old son Michael. Not for a loan. Not for damages. For dropping out of a religious conversion therapy program Talbert had enrolled him in after catching Michael kissing another boy the previous year.
The case was heard on the court TV show Equal Justice with Judge Eboni K. Williams, where the full story came to light in front of a live audience.
How Michael Ended Up in the Program
When Talbert discovered his then-17-year-old son was gay, he issued an ultimatum: stop, or leave. Faced with the prospect of being kicked out of his home as a minor, Michael agreed to attend the conversion therapy program his father had found. He entered not because he wanted to change, but because he had nowhere else to go.
Within a month, Michael wanted out. He told the court that the program director had called participants cursed, told them they were going to hell, and described them as monsters who were unworthy and needed to be fixed. Michael began taking sick days from the program to spend time with the same friend his father had caught him kissing. When Talbert found out, he told Michael to pack his things and leave.
What Michael Said to His Father
Standing before the court, Michael addressed his father directly. "Dad, I get that someone of your generation might not understand what it's like to be queer or on the LGBTQ+ spectrum. But until you learn to accept me and love me for who I am, this relationship is not gonna work."
After leaving the program, Michael went to stay with his best friend. He said it was the first time in his life he had felt free.
What the Judge Said and Did
Judge Eboni K. Williams dismissed Gregory Talbert's lawsuit entirely. She ruled that Michael's agreement to enter the program was not genuine consent, but a response to coercion and the fear of being made homeless as a minor.
In an unscripted moment that closed the case, Judge Williams pulled Michael aside privately and told him directly that he deserves a family that loves him. From the bench, she told Gregory Talbert that what he had done was "unacceptable, manipulative, and downright cruel," and that he had no right to call himself a father until he could love his son unconditionally.
The lawsuit was dismissed. Gregory Talbert left court with nothing.